I’m Not Sure I’ll Ever Dance in Rio

by Frank Roche on October 18, 2007

Here’s a titillating title: If Not for Your Kids, Would You Be Dancing In Rio? It would be tempting to answer, “Hell, yeah!” but it’s not even close to accurate. First, I can’t dance (unless you call flailing around “dancing”). Second, I’ve really enjoyed my kids. The money we invest in college is peanuts compared to the full life we’ve had with them.

Last night Matt was sitting downstairs with us and talked about potential colleges. He’s an excellent student, he disciplined, and he’s determined. He’s got a top-notch GPA and wants to go to law school. We looked through a cool website that helps students (Matt’s 16 and a junior in high school) select schools that fit them. He’s looking a very good schools (big city or town is what he wants) and that makes me happy. What makes me even happier is when I kinda smartassedly said to him, “You know, college isn’t all about drinking beer. You’re going to have to get grades to get into law school.” And without a pause he said, “I know, Dad, I’ll get straight A’s in college, too.” Just like that.

That kid’s gonna make it. And as parents, what more could we ask for?

  • http://paxromano.blogspot.com/ PaxRomano

    I have no children, so why aren’t I dancing in Rio?

    The myth is that we Americans have so much disposable cash that were it not for a handful of obligations (children, mortgages), we’d all be living the high life. Hardly.

    Anyway, Frank you’ve plenty of time for Rio (as well as running with the bulls) — and I am sure you will need legal assistance after you down one too many rum and cokes in a cantina in Brazil and hit on some exiled dictator’s mistress. You’ll be happy that your son is a lawyer! ;)

  • Pax Romano

    I have no children, so why aren’t I dancing in Rio?

    The myth is that we Americans have so much disposable cash that were it not for a handful of obligations (children, mortgages), we’d all be living the high life. Hardly.

    Anyway, Frank you’ve plenty of time for Rio (as well as running with the bulls) — and I am sure you will need legal assistance after you down one too many rum and cokes in a cantina in Brazil and hit on some exiled dictator’s mistress. You’ll be happy that your son is a lawyer! ;)

  • http://www.knowhr.com/blog Frank

    Pax, you make me smile. Yep, one of my favorite phrases is “Gravity and obligations are not my friends.” I should learn to dance more and worry less. Kids and friends and family….that’s what’s important…

  • Frank

    Pax, you make me smile. Yep, one of my favorite phrases is “Gravity and obligations are not my friends.” I should learn to dance more and worry less. Kids and friends and family….that’s what’s important…

  • http://pinkybear.blogspot.com Pinky Bear

    Her name is Rio and she dances on the sand/just like that river dancing through that dusty land.

    You got good kids, Frank. You’re a good dad.

    I once danced in a club named Rio. It’s all good as long as you dance with the person you love best.

  • http://pinkybear.blogspot.com Pinky Bear

    Her name is Rio and she dances on the sand/just like that river dancing through that dusty land.

    You got good kids, Frank. You’re a good dad.

    I once danced in a club named Rio. It’s all good as long as you dance with the person you love best.

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