A Note from My Sister

by Frank Roche on September 18, 2007

I got this note from my sister Susan yesterday. She lives in Illinois along with her husband, who’s also named “Frank.” Unfortunately, his nephew was in Iraq:

I didn’t get a chance to tell you, but Frank’s nephew, Keith Nurnberg, was killed in action in Iraq last week. He was only 26 years old and his wife is pregnant, due in November. Keith was doing his second tour of duty in Iraq and was due to return home sometime in December.

The funeral was this weekend and was probably the saddest thing I’ve ever seen. They have this group called the Patriot Guard and they are veterans who have a motorcycle club. This group goes to every wake and every funeral of anyone killed in action. There were probably 100 of them. They ride with flags on their motorcycles and escorted the funeral procession to the cemetery.

I think I was doing just fine until I saw the little kids standing on the side of the road holding an American flag with their hands across their hearts. Then we went through Genoa City (a small town just south of Lake Geneva) where there are only about 50 houses in town. Each and every house had an American flag out front and all of the residents stood there while the procession went through. It was unbelievable. When we got to the cemetery (which was way out in the middle of nowhere) there were flags lining the entire roadway into it. The Patriot Guard stood at attention during the entire ceremony in a circle around family and friends. They also directed traffic and made sure that everyone truly felt their pride in being there. I can’t believe how amazing it was. We thanked a few of the people when we were leaving and they just said they were proud to be here to honor the family in their time of grief. If that doesn’t clutch your heart I don’t know what will. To say it was a somber event is an understatement.

  • http://paxromano.blogspot.com/ PaxRomano

    How very sad and touching.

    My thoughts are with your sister and her husband.

  • Pax Romano

    How very sad and touching.

    My thoughts are with your sister and her husband.

  • http://www.knowhr.com/blog Frank

    Hey, thanks man. It’s one of those things that hits home. I’m sure there are thousands of these kinds of notes floating around. Strange, huh? It’s like 6 Degrees of Kevin Bacon…pretty soon everyone will be no more than a couple steps away from a story like this. I’d like to say come Jan. 22, 2009 NO MORE.

  • Frank

    Hey, thanks man. It’s one of those things that hits home. I’m sure there are thousands of these kinds of notes floating around. Strange, huh? It’s like 6 Degrees of Kevin Bacon…pretty soon everyone will be no more than a couple steps away from a story like this. I’d like to say come Jan. 22, 2009 NO MORE.

  • http://pinkybear.blogspot.com Pinky Bear

    I am so sorry to hear that. Jeez. How much more?

  • http://pinkybear.blogspot.com Pinky Bear

    I am so sorry to hear that. Jeez. How much more?

  • http://www.knowhr.com/blog Frank

    Jimmi, isn’t it weird? It’s tragedy all over all the time. Sad indeed.

  • Frank

    Jimmi, isn’t it weird? It’s tragedy all over all the time. Sad indeed.

  • http://pinkybear.blogspot.com Pinky Bear

    We need to get out of that fucking place, soon.

  • http://pinkybear.blogspot.com Pinky Bear

    We need to get out of that fucking place, soon.

  • http://www.wedsoff.com Sarcasmom

    I am sorry for the loss the family has to endure. I hope that their pride in his service can gve them some solace. Our country is sacrificing way too much. My husband’s brother is in Iraq. We count the days til he can come home.

  • http://www.wedsoff.com Sarcasmom

    I am sorry for the loss the family has to endure. I hope that their pride in his service can gve them some solace. Our country is sacrificing way too much. My husband’s brother is in Iraq. We count the days til he can come home.

  • http://www.blatherskiteblog.com/ CraftyMoni

    That *did* clutch my heart. sigh. Thanks for sharing your sister’s story.

  • http://pappergank.com/ms/ Moni

    That *did* clutch my heart. sigh. Thanks for sharing your sister’s story.

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